She gave up everything for her family. Dad passed away 26 years ago... August 1984, and she never re-married. She gave her all to raise us up... my 2 elder brothers and myself.
My relationship with my mom is not "ever green" kinda relationship. When I was a teenager, i hated her... literally. I think during that time she must be super hurt. Being rejected by her own daughter. No one will understand how my mom feels. It took me good 6 years to mend the relationship.
Being the only daughter, I have a very bad temper. (Usually people say being the youngest, we are very unique =p) Yell at her all the time, as though she owe me the whole world. Why I hate her, how I learn to love her again and decided to mend the relationship... it's another story by itself. Perhaps someday I will share =)
Mom is my hero. She stands strong. She did not give up on me, and still loves me even though I rejected her during my teenage years.
Looking back, I am glad that I choose to forgive her, and accept her. I do not know how tough it is to raise 3 children without her husband. Even till today, she still goes back to my grandparents house. She treat both my grandfather and grandmother as her own parents. She relate well with all my auntie and uncles.
Mom is a giver. There are times I was upset with her when she gave away food that I buy for her to my cousin. She will say, your cousin like to eat. She gives the best to others. She thinks what is best for others.
My mom, she is a fast worker... and I wonder, why am I not a fast worker heheehe...
My mom... she is just awesome! Love her lotzzz
I treasure her a lot.
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